Be True to Yourself and Love Authentically

Embrace your journey in ethical non-monogamy with honesty, respect, and open hearts. Discover the freedom of loving multiple people while building genuine, ethical connections. Explore stories, insights, and resources to help you live a life of authentic love and meaningful relationships.

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ENM Basics

Key terms and concepts to help you understand Ethical Non-Monogamy and get started with the basics.

First Steps

Practical advice for taking the first steps in ENM, from talking to your partner to setting boundaries.

Relationship Hacks

Tips and tricks for managing jealousy, communication, and other challenges in ENM relationships.

Mindful Practices

Mindfulness techniques and self-care practices to help you stay grounded and emotionally balanced in your ENM journey.

Ready to Feel More Confident in Ethical Non-Monogamy?

I’ve created easy-to-follow, step-by-step guides to support you in your ENM journey!

Whether you want to talk things out, set boundaries, or have meaningful post-date conversations—I’ve got you!

Featured Guides:

  • Master Communication & Conflict Resolution
  • Set Clear Boundaries & Manage Expectations
  • Post-Date Conversations: How to Keep It Honest

Why these guides?

Because I know that good communication, clear boundaries, and honest conversations make all the difference in building healthy, thriving relationships.

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How to Be a Better Girlfriend Emotionally

Learn how to be a better girlfriend emotionally in ENM. Explore tips on fostering communication, managing emotional health and strengthen your relationships.
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ENM Basics

What is Radical Monogamy?

In a world where various forms of non-monogamous relationships have gained increased attention, radical monogamy emerges as a unique and thought-provoking concept.
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How to Respond to I’m Not Ready for a Relationship

How to respond to I'm not ready for a relationship? Understanding the nuances of both your and the other person's perspective is crucial.

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Latest Blog Posts

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Metamorsel: Attracted to Your Partner’s Other Partner?

Relationship anarchy vs polyamory: While sharing similarities in their non-exclusive approach to relationships, they embody distinct philosophies and practices.
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ENM Basics

Polyphilia: Embracing Love for More Than One

If you’re here, you’ve probably heard of the term polyphilia or are curious about what it means. In the world of Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), we ...
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Is Polyamory Related to Sexual Identity?

When we think about sexual identity, we often picture labels like gay, straight, bisexual, or queer. These terms help define our sexual orientation—who we are ...

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GET TO KNOW ME.

Hey there! I'm Anna, the creator of ENM Living. Welcome!

Welcome to ENM Living, a space dedicated to exploring the fascinating world of Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM).

ENM is a lifestyle that challenges conventional norms surrounding love and relationships. We live in a society where monogamy is often seen as the only path to happiness and fulfillment, but for those of us who have embraced the principles of ENM, we know that love and connection can take on many different forms.

This blog is born out of a desire to foster understanding, acceptance, and conversation around ENM. It’s a place where we can break free from the judgments and stereotypes that often accompany this lifestyle.

I have personally experienced the pressure to conform to traditional relationship structures, and like so many others, I have decided to embark on a different path. Here, we will delve into the multifaceted world of ENM, exploring its joys, challenges, and the diverse ways people navigate it.

Whether you’re new to Ethical Non-Monogamy or an experienced practitioner, you will find a wealth of practical information and resources to help you on your journey.

Not everybody subscribes to traditional monogamy, and this should be respected. Do you also believe that love and relationships can be diverse and open?

If you are interested in learning more about Ethical Non-Monogamy and exploring alternative relationship dynamics, you have come to the right place!

COLLABORATIONS AND FEATURES

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Dirtbag Christian Substack – “What is Solo Polyamory”

  • In this collaboration, I contributed to a discussion on solo polyamory, exploring its unique dynamics and relevance in ethical non-monogamy.
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Almaz Ohene Substack – “ENM Relationships 101: What is an ‘Ethical Non-Monogamous’ Relationship? And is it For Me?”

  • This collaboration delves into the basics of Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), breaking down its core principles and helping readers determine if it’s a fit for their lives.
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"The communication tips I found here helped me and my partner establish healthier boundaries in our relationship. It’s been a game-changer for how we navigate jealousy and expectations."​
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