Quiz
The polyamory and ENM quiz
A thoughtful polyamory and ENM quiz: find your ENM profile, the relationship style you lean towards, and next steps that fit where you are right now.
About this quiz
Wondering how to know if you’re polyamorous, or whether an open relationship could work for you? This quiz looks at four things that matter in any form of Ethical Non-Monogamy: your curiosity, how you communicate, how secure you feel when big emotions show up, and how much capacity your life has right now. Three final questions point to the style you lean towards, from polyamory and open relationships to solo polyamory, relationship anarchy or monogamy by choice.
It isn’t a diagnosis or a personality test, and nobody can tell you who you are from fourteen questions. Think of your result as a starting point for reflection and for honest conversations with the people in your life.
Questions about the quiz
Are my answers saved anywhere?
No. Your answers are worked out in your own browser and are never sent to ENM Living. Only if you choose to receive the printable workbook do we receive your email address and the name of your result.
Can I take it with a partner?
Yes. Take it separately, then compare your profiles and the style you each lean towards. The printable workbook has space to do this together.
What if my result says monogamy?
That’s a perfectly valid result. ENM Living isn’t here to convince anyone that non-monogamy is better, only to help people choose consciously.
New to all of this? Start with our beginner’s reading path or what ENM is.