ENM Living

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Is it possible to be happy in a rommate marriage? In the world of ethical non-monogamy (ENM), there’s a lot of focus on love, sex, and relationships, but sometimes relationships change. They evolve in ways that we don’t expect, and one common shift is when a marriage starts to feel more like a partnership or

Learn the essential difference between rules and boundaries in ENM and how these distinctions promote respect, safety, and trust across relationships.

Navigating feelings when your husband has a girlfriend can be complex, even in an ethical non-monogamy relationship. Learn how to move forward with confidence.

Discover why the betrayed spouse wants details after infidelity and how understanding the need for clarity can aid in the healing process.

Learn how to be a better girlfriend emotionally in ENM. Explore tips on fostering communication, managing emotional health and strengthen your relationships.

If you are wondering how to help your spouse heal from your affair, you’ve come to the right place! In an ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationship, trust and communication are foundational pillars. Partners often open up to each other about their desires, establish boundaries, and agree on what’s allowed and what’s not. But even in a

Relationship anarchy vs polyamory: While sharing similarities in their non-exclusive approach to relationships, they embody distinct philosophies and practices.