When people hear the words “married” and “poly” in the same sentence, their first reaction is often confusion. “Wait, so you’re married but also dating other people?” For many, the idea of marriage is deeply tied to monogamy. From childhood, we’re told that marriage means exclusivity, that finding “The One” is the end goal, and […]
If you’ve been exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) for any amount of time, chances are you’ve come across a variety of terms that describe different sexual orientations. Some are widely known, like gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Others, such as polysexual and pansexual, might not be as familiar, but they are equally important in understanding attraction and
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Mark Your Calendars for February 28th! In the world of ethical non-monogamy (ENM), relationships often defy the conventional boundaries and expectations set by mainstream society. What might seem unusual to others—like having multiple romantic or sexual partners—is actually a practice grounded in communication, trust, and consent. Rather than adhering to strict monogamous ideals, ENM invites
Valentine’s Day can be a bit of a tricky holiday when you’re in an ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationship. While it’s often depicted as a day meant for couples, those in multiple-partner relationships, or multiple relationships, may be facing the reality of juggling multiple celebrations, balancing different expectations, and dealing with emotions like jealousy or insecurity
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Are you intrigued by the idea of breaking free from traditional relationship norms? An unconventional relationship—whether polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, or relationship anarchy—offers a refreshing perspective on love, connection, and individuality. These relationships challenge societal expectations and embrace flexibility, creativity, and mutual respect. In this blog post, we’ll explore the dynamics of unconventional relationships, uncover their
Relationships, whether monogamous or non-monogamous, can be challenging to navigate when conflicts arise. Ultimatums in relationships – demanding a specific change in behavior with clear consequences if unmet – can seem like a quick solution. But are they really helpful, or do they create more harm than good? In the context of ethical non-monogamy (ENM),
Long-distance relationships (LDRs) are notoriously challenging to navigate. This complexity amplifies in ethical non-monogamous (ENM) dynamics, where multiple connections and commitments can heavily influence the decision-making process. When the time comes to close the physical distance, the inevitable question arises: who should move? This isn’t just about practicalities—it’s about the delicate balance of love, compromise,
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When we talk about cheating, we often think of it in the context of traditional monogamy—sneaky affairs, secretive behavior, and broken promises. But what about cheating in an open relationship? In open relationships, where multiple partnerships and romantic connections are part of the agreement, can cheating still happen? Is it possible for someone to cheat
In the world of ethical non-monogamy (ENM), one-sided open relationships often exist in a complex and delicate space. For some people, these relationships are liberating and offer a chance for personal exploration, while others may find them emotionally challenging, as jealousy, resentment, and insecurity can arise. Navigating this dynamic successfully requires open communication, emotional intelligence,
Note from Anna: I’m so excited to introduce Jennifer, the writer behind the incredible Dirtbag Christian! Her Substack is a beautifully raw and insightful exploration of faith, relationships, and personal growth, filled with honesty. Jennifer and I recently did a post-swap, and I couldn’t be happier to share her perspective with all of you. She’s
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