Relationship Hacks

Valentine’s Day can be a bit of a tricky holiday when you’re in an ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationship. While it’s often depicted as a day meant for couples, those in multiple-partner relationships, or multiple relationships, may be facing the reality of juggling multiple celebrations, balancing different expectations, and dealing with emotions like jealousy or insecurity […]

Are you intrigued by the idea of breaking free from traditional relationship norms? An unconventional relationship—whether polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, or relationship anarchy—offers a refreshing perspective on love, connection, and individuality. These relationships challenge societal expectations and embrace flexibility, creativity, and mutual respect. In this blog post, we’ll explore the dynamics of unconventional relationships, uncover their

Relationships, whether monogamous or non-monogamous, can be challenging to navigate when conflicts arise. Ultimatums in relationships – demanding a specific change in behavior with clear consequences if unmet – can seem like a quick solution. But are they really helpful, or do they create more harm than good? In the context of ethical non-monogamy (ENM),

Long-distance relationships (LDRs) are notoriously challenging to navigate. This complexity amplifies in ethical non-monogamous (ENM) dynamics, where multiple connections and commitments can heavily influence the decision-making process. When the time comes to close the physical distance, the inevitable question arises: who should move? This isn’t just about practicalities—it’s about the delicate balance of love, compromise,

When we talk about cheating, we often think of it in the context of traditional monogamy—sneaky affairs, secretive behavior, and broken promises. But what about cheating in an open relationship? In open relationships, where multiple partnerships and romantic connections are part of the agreement, can cheating still happen? Is it possible for someone to cheat

In the world of ethical non-monogamy (ENM), one-sided open relationships often exist in a complex and delicate space. For some people, these relationships are liberating and offer a chance for personal exploration, while others may find them emotionally challenging, as jealousy, resentment, and insecurity can arise. Navigating this dynamic successfully requires open communication, emotional intelligence,

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Is it possible to be happy in a rommate marriage? In the world of ethical non-monogamy (ENM), there’s a lot of focus on love, sex, and relationships, but sometimes relationships change. They evolve in ways that we don’t expect, and one common shift is when a marriage starts to feel more like a partnership or

Learn the essential difference between rules and boundaries in ENM and how these distinctions promote respect, safety, and trust across relationships.

Navigating feelings when your husband has a girlfriend can be complex, even in an ethical non-monogamy relationship. Learn how to move forward with confidence.