Looking for a polyamorous relationship contract template or an open marriage contract? This ENM relationship agreement template helps you and your partner(s) put your agreements into words: what you’ve agreed, why, and when you’ll review it. It’s a living document, not a legal contract, so you can change it as you grow.
What’s inside
- Agreements, not contracts (boundaries vs agreements vs rules)
- Before you write anything: a private reflection
- Our relationship structure
- Time, attention and scheduling
- Communication and check-ins
- Sexual health and safer sex
- Home, money and privacy
- Feelings, veto and changing the agreement
- When an agreement gets broken: a repair plan
- Your one-page signed agreement and review log
- Final words
Who it’s for
Couples and polycules opening up, or anyone in an open, polyamorous or swinging relationship who wants clearer, kinder agreements.
How to use it
- Each fill in the private reflection on your own.
- Work through the agreement sections together, one or two per conversation.
- Tick agreed, needs more talk or not for us for every question.
- Write your one-page summary and set a review date.
- Review it every three months, or sooner if something changes.
Format
Printable PDF, A4, 24 pages, designed to print or fill in on a tablet. Time needed: two or three conversations of about an hour each. Instant download after purchase. For personal use.
This template is for education and self-reflection. It isn’t a legal document or a substitute for professional advice.
